We live in an age obsessed with preservation. We count our steps, monitor our sleep, and stretch our lives longer than any generation before us. And yet, paradoxically, cancer is rising in the young, anxiety is everywhere, and many of us are living longer without feeling more whole.

Perhaps the goal was never just longevity. Perhaps healing was always meant to include peace.

“To die will be an awfully big adventure,” Peter Pan says — but maybe the real adventure is learning how to live and die well at the same time. Because death isn’t the opposite of life; it’s the frame that gives life its meaning. And when we learn to face it with curiosity and presence, even the end becomes part of the story worth telling.

Most people want to die at home—but few do. This post explores why modern healthcare avoids talking about death, how that avoidance causes harm, and what it looks like to lead these sacred conversations with care and clarity.